Objective To meta integrate the qualitative research on psychological experience of female patients with stress urinary incontinence （SUI）, and to provide evidence for positive psychological care for the population. Methods We searched Cochrane Library, PubMed, EMbase, Web of Science, OVID, CINAHL, CNKI, VIP, Wanfang and China biomedical database for publications indexed into the aforementioned databases within the period spanning from establishment of the database to January 2022. The included publications were appraised with JBI′s evaluation tool for qualitative research (2016 Edition) for quality inspection, and the results were analyzed by pooled integration method. Results A total of 30 research results were extracted from 10 included publications. Similar results were summarized into 6 new categories, and finally integrated into two integrated results:①SUI made patients lose control of the body, resulting in physiological disorders, as well as negative emotions such as self denial, confusion and isolation; ②SUI patients had a lagging awareness of their own symptoms, and were eager for active attention from the outside world, and sufficient social support could help them foster self-management. Conclusion Urinary incontinence brings great physical and mental distress to female patients. On one side, patients should improve their self-management and psychological cognition, and actively return to social life. On the other side, medical staff should pay attention to the psychological changes of patients, spread urinary incontinence related knowledge to patients and their families, and enhance social and family support, so as to improve the quality of life of patients.