With the increasing of the elderly population in China, increasing problems emerged in the health service for the elderly, and realizing the socialization of the elderly care service is an important way to solve the problems. This study analyzed the status quo of the elderly care services and the connotation of its socialization, discussed the reliability on establishment of socialized nur-sing service mode for the elderly by means of Internet and Internet of Things, and put forward the basic contents construction of socialized nursing mode and its improvement need participation of the government, the elderly care institutions and the family, so as to fasten the process of the socialization for the elderly care service.